How do i get back with him?

if a guy wants to be with you he will find absolutely no excuse! he wants to explore things outside of your relationship. so do your self a favor and do the same thing. you guys can't be friends right now because being around him will just confuse you. you have too much feelings for him to be just friends. he might even try to have with you because he is so comfortable with you but it will mean nothing to him. it is going to take a long time to get over him but you have to be strong and do it. just remember that it was his decision and you have to respect that. don't think that it's his friends fault because ultimately it was his decision. don't jump into another relationship until you get over him because it won't be fair to the other person, that shouldn't stop you from meeting people though and making new friends. when you do see him at family functions just say hello and only small talk don't pay too much attention to him as bad as you might want to. be strong and keep your head up